After our wedding, a lot of my friends were hitting me up and I was truly taken aback by the comments. From some of them sharing that this was their first wedding they’ve ever been to, to congratulating me for getting a good one because it’s nothing in these streets lol to even implying that I have the blueprint and motivating them.
Now I don’t have all the answers, but I will share this. Of course it’s important for you to be attracted to your partner but I think sometimes we negate or devalue how vital their spiritual and emotional intelligence needs to be. Your partner should be able to see not only who you currently are, but who you are becoming. For all of my guys, this is extremely important because ultimately she is going to be your help mate and not only bring your vision to life but challenge you to be the best version of you. If they do not see who you are becoming, RUN!
Before we even were a couple, Destiny would speak into my future often. I realized that she seen me very early and also that her gifts were in alignment with what I felt God had shown me for my own life. I knew that I would be good alone, but with us together side by side it would be a cheat code.
